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Give some parents a choice between traveling with teenagers or with a pack of hungry badgers, and they'll choose the badgers nine times out of ten. There's just something about combining unpredictable teens and close quarters that create stressful situations for those unprepared for the journey. When faced with a long trip with their teenager, some parents simply toss an MP3 player or hand-held computer game into the back seat with their child, or allow their teen to invite a friend. While this may stop them from repeatedly asking, "Are we there yet?" it builds barriers between the child and parent, defeating the true spirit of the family vacation.
To unlock the secrets of traveling peacefully with your teenagers, check out these tips from the American Society of Travel Agents (ASTA). Some of the most travel-wise people in the world, ASTA members know that even though you don't agree on music and movies with your teen, you can all agree that hiking the Grand Canyon or watching the sun set from the deck of your cruise ship is very cool. Space, the First and Final Frontier To teenagers, space equals privacy, and privacy is hard to come by in a cramped hotel room. Plus, the more space your teens have to get away from you, the more you'll have to get away from them. They'll Love It When a Good Plan Comes Together Brainstorm with your entire family and listen to their input. Your teen may surprise you with some of things he or she might like to do on vacation. The more you show that you are listening, the more your teen will come forth with ideas. Take their interests into consideration, whether it's their love of the outdoors, history or music.
They Love the Night Life, But They Don't Love to Boogie Give your teens a night off. Allow older teens to go out on their own for a few hours, to just hang out at the local shops, and trust them to be back at the hotel at a designated time. For piece of mind, have your travel agent set up an international cell phone plan that can keep you and your teens constantly connected. Even if they don't feel like going out, you can still give them the night off to simply chill out in the hotel while you enjoy the nightlife. Let them rent a movie and order room service. Dollars and Sense Sleeping Beauties Food for Thought Allow them the occasional fast food trip to cleanse their delicate palates. One great trick, travel agents tell us, is to let older teens eat on their own, especially in a foreign town. Give them enough money and set them free. This will force them to find their way around, communicate with locals and handle money responsibly. And all the while, you and your spouse can sneak off for a romantic dinner. Just be sure to discuss with your teens to respect and obey the local customs while they're out on their own. Take a CyberBreak Where to Go Travel agents recommend cruises as a great option for families, where teens often bond with others their age on board and enjoy a great amount of space and freedom. Ski holidays also come highly recommended, even though your teen will most likely choose to snowboard, for most resorts have special programs designed just for their age group. "Family adventures" are a travel agent specialty, where you'll enjoy guided, multi-sport tours in amazing locales. If multi-sports are not your idea of vacation bliss, and you prefer to keep things low-key, possibly to visit relatives or an historic site, keep in mind some activities that your teen can look forward to or plan a side trip to an amusement or water park. The Name is Agent, Travel Agent Contact a trusted agent today and start planning your next family vacation. Travel agents are loaded with useful information, steering your in the right direction and saving you time and money in the process. (Source: travelsense) |
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